There is this thing about capacity: though we often walk through our lives trying to impress one another with what is on our mind, or with our appearance and accoutrements, the basis for connection is actually less definable.
Capacity speaks to capacity. Both earth and sky.
This is what’s described by performers and teachers when relating that the make up of their audience, or the readiness and attentiveness of their students, genuinely matters to what comes forward from them in a given situation. It is true in group situations where there is no leader as well.
And this is something one see easily in a virtual world… ways in which it is possible to work with the sense of self and others from the inside-out.